Rumor has it that there are so many single good men and women that one would think that somehow in this crazy cosmic universe that they would connect, right? Hmmmm, let's look at this shall we? What constitutes a good man or a good woman in your opinion? I would also ask that if you are such a good man or a phenomenal woman then why are you still single? We hear all of the time that men are intimidated by successful women. I have to believe that ALL men cannot be intimidated by successful women.
I also hear from men that women will not allow the man to lead. Why can't we as women allow the men to be men in the dating process? I'll throw an additional thought out there. Just because you are a good man or a good woman does not mean that you are a good match. I'd love to hear your thoughts on how the single good men can connect with single good women and vice versa. Send me an email using the submission form toward the bottom of the blog site with Single and Searching in the subject with specific questions for me otherwise, simple comment below. Let the communication begin!
About the Author:Yolanda "Yanni" Brown is a Certified Relationship Educator/Love Coach and the CEO of Kiss and Make Up with Intimate Evenings. For over a decade the Chi-city born and raised Piscean (this explains her penchant for all things love related) has specialized in helping couples fall in love over and over again. Her forums, seminars and workshops all share a common theme: the cultivation of healthy relationships. You can find out more about Yanni by visiting Intimate Evenings or via email at yanni@intimateevenings.com.
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Something to really think about, Yanni. I'm interested in the responses you receive.
ReplyDeleteI'll give my 2 cents on women will not allow the man to lead. I see this (and have done it) numerous times. Speaking for myself, when you're used to holding it down so long it takes extra effort to just let go. As much as I've said I want someone who can share the responsibilities it's often difficult to shift. It can be done, but it has to happen early in the relationship so there's no hassle later on.